Joyzey's Pad

A Good Man

I will be coming back to this post to add and edit over time, to try and get a better idea of who I want my husband to be, what kind of man I would enjoy and/or some of the things I'd want him to do.


I've always looked for older and taller than me. The taller hasn't been a problem, but the older... Its a little creepy to me to have all of these younger guys looking at me like that.

The classic "He has to make me laugh". If you have to be with someone for the rest of your time on this earth, you had better be able to get a good (or at lest descent) laugh out of the ups and downs that the two of you will go through.

He has to be a believer. It would be nice to have a husband that's on the same (if not higher) level than I am.

When we're courting, I want to be wooed. I really do. Even though by the time that we're courting, we'll both have some idea that their the one, and that we are getting married, but I sill want to be swept off my feet!!

I want to dance with him. Him being a lover of dance would be a good thing. I want to learn a few different dances, but some I have to wait until I get married because of how intimate they get. I know how to swing, but I want to learn the waltz, salsa, tango, disco, cha cha, mambo, Texas two step, two step,

I want him to sing(and not totally suck at it) to me. For us to sing to, and with each other.

I have to respect him, and what he does. I want to be able to look up to him. Be able to say "That's the kind of man I will follow".

I'm not sure if this is a requirement, but it would be absolutely wonderful if; he saw my body purely as a bonus. Loves all the rest of me, the real me, and doesn't love me for my body, but is happy about it being part of the package.



Things That I Do NOT Want.

posted by ~*Joyzey*~ @ 10/18/2006 06:00:00 PM